Dating, friendship, and the in-between

Find your people.Maybe your person.

TanTaa is a calmer place to meet. Discover people nearby, become friends first, and let conversations happen when they feel right.

18+ onlyFriends-first messagingFree to join

A TanTaa member profile
A conversation in TanTaa
People nearby
Friends first
Voice notes
A photo-led gridNot another swipe deck.
Friends before messagesChat unlocks when you both follow.
Private by designYour distance stays approximate.

Why TanTaa

A calmer way to meet.
More room to be human.

Less performing, less swiping, less noise. TanTaa is built around the idea that the best connections need a little space to become something.

For you, Nearby, New

Three simple ways to find people — without the slot-machine feeling of an endless swipe deck.

Profiles with substance

Photos, interests and the small details that turn a face on a screen into someone worth knowing.

Friends first

Messaging unlocks when you both follow each other. No cold DMs. No pressure to perform.

Conversations that breathe

Photos, voice notes, replies and reactions live together in one calm, readable thread.

Calls when it clicks

Move from typing to talking with voice or video calls when you are both ready.

Privacy you control

Ghost mode, read-receipt control, call permissions and clear block and report tools.

DISCOVER

Your kind of people,
not just more people.

A photo-led grid you can actually read. See who is online, who is close, and who is new — then open a profile without being pulled into a game.

  • For you — a thoughtful mix, refreshed for you.
  • Nearby — start with the people around you.
  • New — meet the newest members first.
A small preview. Your real grid is built around you.
Aisha, 25

Aisha, 25

1.2 km away

Marcus, 30

Marcus, 30

4.1 km away

Maya, 28

Maya, 28

3.2 km away

Camila, 29

Camila, 29

3.3 km away

Hana, 26

Hana, 26

3.9 km away

Omar, 32

Omar, 32

5.4 km away

A calm conversation thread in TanTaa
CONVERSATIONS

Less small talk.
More real.

When a friendship becomes mutual, messaging opens. Keep it light with photos and reactions, or go deeper with a voice note or a call.

  • Friends-only chats. Messages unlock only after you both follow each other.
  • Photos and voice notes. Say it the way it feels, not just the way it types.
  • Read receipts, your call. Choose whether other people see when you have read a message.
  • Voice and video calls. A natural next step when you both feel ready.

How it works

Three steps.
No performance.

A straightforward path from a face in the grid to a conversation worth having.

01

Make it yours

Add the photos, details and interests that feel like you. Enough to give someone a place to start.

02

Find your people

Explore people nearby, new members, or a mix picked for you. Open a profile when someone catches your eye.

03

Become friends first

Follow. If they follow back, the chat opens. Then take it at your pace — text, voice, photos, or a call.

Membership

More ways to meet.
At your pace.

Optional plans for people who want a little more room to connect. No ads, no boosts that push you to the front of a queue.

TanTaa Plus

The essentials

$1 / month

The essentials for a more connected chat.

  • See and send photos in chat
  • Voice and video calls
  • See who viewed your profile
  • Hide message read receipts
Join the waitlist

TanTaa Premium

Most complete

$2.99 / month

Total control over how you show up and who reaches you.

  • Everything in Plus
  • Gold Premium badge
  • Ghost mode
  • Choose who can call you
  • Call countries
  • Advanced discovery filters
  • Hide profile-view history
  • Turn off incoming calls
Join the waitlist

Membership is not live in the app yet. Join the waitlist and we’ll let you know when it is.

Privacy & safety

You decide
who gets close.

TanTaa is built for adults who want to meet without giving away more than they choose. Your exact location is never shown, and you can step back whenever you need to.

Read our privacy promise
Ghost modeBrowse without appearing online or leaving a profile-view trace.
Call on your termsTurn calls off, choose who can call, and limit calls by country.
Block and reportClear tools to stop contact and flag anything that feels wrong.

Be early

Be first through the door.

TanTaa is coming to iPhone and Android. Join the early-access list and we’ll send one thoughtful email when it’s ready.

Join the waitlist ↗

No spam. No noise. Just the launch.